Should I get a kitten - how to care for it and what it will take

July 20, 2018

Before you get a kitten, you need to think through everything and prepare. We hope our help will help you. It is better to get a kitten when he is three months old, not earlier. When you go to pick up your pet, take a special carrier with you - this will be safer and more comfortable for both you and the baby.

Usually, breeders offer to take with you a diaper with the smell of the native “nest”, but just in case, take yours and rub it on the cat and other kittens, so that in the new home the baby will be surrounded by familiar and familiar smells at first.

What is a carrier and how to choose it correctly

Carrying - a basket, box for carrying and transporting the baby.

Carrying requirements:

You need to pay attention to the seasonality of carrying; it can be winter, summer, or combined;
It should be made of durable materials, it is good if it is collapsible so that it can be washed;
The carrier must have an inspection hole, this reduces the animal’s sense of fear. A hard bottom will also be a plus, since the kitten loves to feel solid soil under its feet;
The clasps must be strong, some animals like to try to open the carrier, so as not to lose your pet, it is better to take this fact into account;

Select the size according to the breed of the cat; it is better to buy a larger one right away, because when the kitten grows up you won’t have to change it.

Types of carriers

There are several types of cat carriers on the market.

Baskets

They have strong walls and a bottom that allows the animal to feel comfortable. It must be taken into account that the cat basket must be tightly closed.

The advantages of the baskets are that they are made from natural materials and are quite lightweight.
The disadvantages of baskets are that they are not airtight and absorb odors. It is not recommended to wash it; it is better to wipe it with a slightly damp cloth, so contamination is not always removed.

Bags for transporting cats made of fabric

The advantages of bags are that they are very light, do not take up much space, can be folded, and are inexpensive.
The downside is that they can get wet and do not have a frame, which leads to irritation and discomfort for the cat.

Containers for transporting cats

One of the most reliable ways to transport your pets. The advantages of containers are that they are made from durable plastic, which is easy to care for: wash, clean. This container is well suited for transportation in a car, but if you transport your cat on public transport, it will be inconvenient, as it takes up a lot of space and is quite heavy.

Please note that it is better to choose a container with metal doors; plastic ones are not entirely reliable.

Bringing the kitten home

So, you've thought about all these questions and decided that a cat will fit into your life. Great, your worries and fun are just beginning! Bringing a new kitten into the home will be an exciting time for both you and your family, but it can be a stressful time for the kitten, having left its family and familiar environment. The transition period for your kitten will be easier if you have done some preliminary preparation.

Make sure you have all the necessary equipment, including a carrying cage. Once you have chosen a kitten, it should be placed in a carrier during the trip home. A loose kitten in a car can easily lead to an accident. Before this, at home, it is advisable for him to place something like a box or basket with a warm blanket in a secluded and quiet place. Place your cat's water and food bowls and litter box in a quiet, easily accessible area where he can do his business in peace. The right toys will help you play and interact with your kitten. Expensive toys are not at all necessary, since he will happily chase a piece of ordinary rope or tape. However, the kitten must be supervised with any toys. If your kitten is a long-haired breed, a soft brush will be very useful, with its help you can easily train him for grooming, which will accompany him for the rest of his life.

An often overlooked piece of equipment is the scratching post. If this is not provided, your kitten will find another suitable place to sharpen its claws at any opportunity, including your furniture and curtains!

Tray or toilet for a kitten

Choose a suitable tray for your pet

A toilet (tray) is a mandatory attribute when keeping an animal. It is better to purchase a medium or large size right away.

Types of trays:

A tray with rectangular sides is the simplest type of cat litter. Convenient for small cats. Cons - if the cat likes to bury itself, it will most likely scatter the litter. Pros: inexpensive, lightweight.

Tray with sides and mesh. The tray is similar to the previous one, but the advantage is that it is easy to clean.
Tray with high sides. It’s convenient because when the kitten paddles, it doesn’t scatter the litter, but when washing this toilet, the litter can remain on the sides.
Toilet for a cat . A special toilet is designed specifically for the convenience of the owners. Very convenient and practical. It has high sides on which the seal is located, this allows you to cover the toilet with a bag or paper and fix it.
Tray - house. An innovation that will make caring for your pet much easier. The toilet is shaped like a house, with a transparent door. It is collapsible, which is convenient for washing. Many models are equipped with a carbon filter, which removes odor. This toilet model is very convenient, it can be placed even in the smallest apartment, and it will not spoil the view.
The toilet is a tray with a cleaning system. The design of the tray is made in such a way that it contains a sensor that reacts to the approach of a cat. After a couple of minutes, a rake comes out and removes the waste into a special container. The container must be cleaned periodically.

To the shelter for cats

Finally, the choice was made. On a fine June day, we headed to Tucson to pick up new members of our family. It was decided to take two kittens of about the same age so that they could spend time together. In the shelter's office we witnessed such a scene. An elderly woman brought her pet - a five-year-old cat. She is forced to give him up to a shelter because she lost her job, her house, and she does not have money to feed the animal. The cat understood that the moment of separation had come. He meowed loudly, and no kind words from the mistress had any effect. The woman herself could not stand it and burst into tears. I consoled her as best I could, saying that there would definitely be a kind person who would take her pussy into his family and take care of her.

There were several people waiting in the office lobby. They all came to take new pets into their home. When it was our turn, a nice female volunteer talked to us beforehand. She asked if there had ever been cats in our house, what living conditions we had for future pets, whether the cats would live in the house, or whether we were going to let them out into the street. Apparently, she was satisfied with our answers.

Then we were given an accompanying person, and we went to choose our future pets. Walking through the territory of the shelter, I noticed that the “cat house” was separate and far from the dog apartments. By the way, there are several walking areas for dogs. Large dogs sit alone in open enclosures, and small dogs live inside.

So, we are in the cat kingdom. Each purr occupies a separate chamber, consisting of two rooms. The outside of the apartment is glazed, and there is air conditioning inside. In one compartment the pussy sleeps, in the other there is a toilet. Visitors can see the entire private life of cats. Near each cell there is an envelope with documents and detailed information about the occupant. The cameras are located in three tiers. Adult cats and young animals are housed in separate rooms.

We went to the “cat kindergarten”. My husband immediately recognized his kitten, which he had chosen from a photograph. Black cat, with a white shirt and white socks. He stood on his hind legs, meowing pitifully, as if asking: “Take me away from here!” I’m very good, see?” The attendant opened the door of the “apartment”, the husband took the kitten in his arms, and in gratitude the kitten skinned his hand until it bled. Thus, the cat claimed its rights to a new owner, and it was decided that we had already chosen one pet.

Now we had to meet the second member of our future tailed team. It turned out to be a small cat, golden with black on the back and white belly and paws. She had cute striped pants on her back legs, like a tiger. When we approached her closet, she was sleeping, and was very unhappy that she was woken up. The choice has been made.

We returned to the office to complete paperwork. I had to sign a “cloud” of papers and pay $100 for each kitten. This money goes to maintaining the operation of the shelter. By the way, the shelter exists only on donations. We received documents for each pet: when he was born, what vaccinations he received, when he was sterilized, the number of the installed microchip (if the cat gets lost, this microchip will quickly find him). Soon our pets were brought: each in a separate carrying box. At parting, we were given a special dry food for kittens; it contains a full range of vitamins and minerals necessary for the growth and development of babies.

Toilet filler

Each owner chooses independently which type of filler is best suited for his pet.

It’s up to you to decide what type of cat it will be, but it’s better to buy one that the kitten is already used to. Many people prefer the old methods: newspaper, sawdust, sand. But such a filler quickly gets wet and does not eliminate the smell. It is better to use specialized fillers, they are:

granular , made from small lumps of clay. Absorbs moisture well, but does not eliminate all odors. This kind of filler should not be flushed down the toilet. It needs to be changed every 3-4 days;
wood – granular, copes with odor very well, can be washed down the drain. But the downside is that when wet it can stick to the animal’s fur;
clumping filler , very popular; when wet, it forms a lump that can be easily removed with a spatula. But it sticks to the paws and doesn't hold odor very well;
silica gel filler . A new type of filler, which consists of quartz sand, its very big advantage is that it needs to be changed every 2 weeks. Eco-friendly and absolutely harmless. The downside is the high price.

Toilet taming

Most kittens learn to toilet easily, being naturally clean animals. The litter tray should be placed in a quiet and accessible place. The kitten should be placed near the litter box for short periods of time after it wakes up and every time after eating. Observe the kitten during its "toilet" behavior, and if it does not reach the litter box, simply put it there. Very soon he will learn the procedure, and if the litter box is kept clean, the kitten will use it as a toilet for any reason.

Your kitten may prefer different types of litter for his litter box, so try experimenting with soil, sand, and other litters from the pet store to find one he likes.

Food bowl

Choose comfortable bowls

It is better if the bowl is stable; what material it is made of is not so important, the main thing is that it is not harmful to the kitten. There are many types from single to triple bowls. You can also choose colors and materials as you wish. Some owners sometimes even write the kitten’s name on the bowl; this is convenient if you have more than one animal in the house, so you definitely won’t mix up the bowls.

It is also worth considering the anatomical capabilities of your pet when choosing a bowl, since you cannot buy a bowl that is too deep for the British and Persians. Because of their flattened muzzle, it is inconvenient for them to eat from such dishes. For large breeds of cats, it is recommended to use stands for bowls so that the cat does not have back problems in the future.

Don't "raise" a cat

Cats don't like that!

Many people are sure: it is important to immediately show who is boss in the house. And preferably, so that the cat understands this once and for all. One of the tips that can be found on the Internet is to grab the cat by the scruff of the neck, lift it higher and shake it thoroughly. Well, so that he knows his place. Some may even spank the animal a couple of times, apparently to reinforce the result. So, if you are given such advice, do not listen.

Because felinologists unanimously say: a cat is not a dog, he always hunts alone and, accordingly, does not need organization and distribution of roles. It’s stupid to explain to a cat what submission and control are; he simply won’t understand what you want from him. The cat-owner relationship is built on mutual sympathy and the cat's sense of security. A cat needs a close creature to cuddle up to, purr next to (at the same time ask for food), and trustingly curl up on his lap. If you start raising a cat using the above methods, then the cat will no longer consider you as a close being.

scratching post

All kittens love to scratch their claws, so it is important that he can do this not on furniture, but on a special stand for scratching his claws - a scratching post. They come in different sizes; when buying a scratching post, you need to take into account the approximate size of the already grown kitten. If this is a cat, for example, of the Maine Coon breed, then it is better to immediately buy a large scratching post so that the cat, even when it grows up, can stretch out and scratch its claws. Most often, the claws are entwined with sisal and twine; when choosing, keep in mind that it must be reliable.

A little about education

So you got yourself a kitten, brought it home, there is a full bowl of food waiting for it, an awesome toilet, a bunch of toys and loving, caring owners. In short, the kitten went to heaven...

Some owners start with educational measures, which I have witnessed many times in my life. I must say, although I never had my own cat, I met these animals very often. And more than once I have seen a picture of a cat being trained to “not pee in his slippers” or “come on, you creature, admitting why you climbed onto the table!!!”

Remember that you did not get a little furry person , but an animal whose life is built on instincts. Kote will never understand what is good and what is bad. He can develop a conditioned reflex on the theme “you jump on the table -> the hostess comes and hits you with a broom.” He will associate the table with a blow with a broom. You need to spend time on this; the cat will never understand what the trick is right away. And the cat will never understand that you were Unsatisfied with Him. It’s generally beyond my understanding how people can really think about this... Yes, cats have expressive facial expressions, sometimes they react in non-standard ways, but you need to understand the basic principles of physiology and the consciousness of the animal.

If your kitten can't get used to the toilet, use the science rather than the puddle-poking method. Imagine being poked in your poop after just relieving yourself. Yes, in the wrong place - but what, now you should eat them or what?

It is wrong to think that a kote is a person. Of course, it's romantic and all that, but it often leads to difficulties rather than good consequences. If you want to have a man, have a child. A cat has its own habits, needs and shortcomings, and you need to treat it like a cat.

Try to take this into account. If the cat does things in slippers, place them in a place inaccessible to him. Remove food from the table so that he does not have any unnecessary temptation to break the rule in the sense that the divine broom may not show up. The cat is very independent, and you are much smarter than him - so why pretend to be a principled teacher? Just don't let him do anything you don't like.

How to choose a comb for your pet

You can use a furmitator to comb your cat well.

Many types of combs are now available in pet stores, they come in different sizes, materials and with different features. When choosing, you need to take into account such features as:

type of comb bristles;
the material from which it is made;
convenience and durability;
safety, environmental friendliness;
cleaning

It is better when you have several combs in your arsenal, for simple combing, for combing out wool.

Brushes are:

Furminators, a comb to reduce the shedding of an animal. They also have properties such as: reducing the amount of hair loss, removing undercoat, and preventing the formation of tangles.
Palm combs. Very comfortable, small combs for everyday use. The most common material used is rubber.
Massage brushes. Flat with hard bristles, for combing out undercoat. Suitable for long-haired and short-haired cats. After using it, it is better to use a regular brush, then your pet will have a beautiful and well-groomed coat.

Cat toys

Buy toys for your cat

A large variety of all kinds of toys are presented, they are:

Teasing. Most often on a string or on a shelf and a string, this is a good and simple toy that even the laziest cat will want to play with.
Balls. A popular toy, it comes in various variations: transparent, with a toy or bell inside, soft, of different sizes and colors. All cats will love this toy.
Interactive toys. Such as mazes with something inside, the purpose of such toys is educational.

Sprays for kittens

If you want to keep your furniture from scratches or train your cat to go to the litter box, special sprays will help you with this. They are designed to attract the cat's attention and vice versa.

Sprays to attract attention are used so that the kitten is not afraid to approach new things, a toilet, a scratching post, a bowl or a house. This simple and reliable method will help you quickly accustom your kitten to these things.

Repellent sprays are used to spray furniture; sometimes, when cats begin to mark their territory, such a spray is also used to wean him from this.

Kitten and child

A kitten can become your child's faithful friend. Plus, a cat can teach you a lot. Children who have a cat at home are often distinguished by spontaneity, gentleness, creativity, and independence.

However, your task is to explain to your child that a kitten is not a toy. He should not be pulled by the tail, squeezed too much or offended. Warn that your pet may react to pain by biting or scratching.

Do not get a kitten in the expectation that the child will take care of it himself. Yes, 5-year-old children are able to feed or brush a cat and play with it. The student can clean the tray (subject to hygiene rules). However, the child is not ready to take full responsibility for the life and health of another being.

Toothpaste and brush for kittens

Kittens' teeth can suffer from the same diseases as people's teeth; often owners simply do not pay attention to this, which causes the animal to suffer greatly. In order for this to happen, a cat, like a person, needs to take care of its teeth. For care, you need to use specialized products that are sold at a pet store or veterinarian.

Most often this is toothpaste and a brush. It gently cleanses your pet's teeth while protecting them. A toothbrush is often placed on the owner’s finger for convenient cleaning. This procedure should be carried out twice a week. When cleaning for the first time, it is important not to scare the animal, but to try to carry out the cleaning with care. Of course, you also need to periodically show your teeth to the doctor.

Having a cat makes a man more attractive

Women love men, and women love cats. And the “man-cat” combination can generally drive a girl crazy! Studies have shown that ninety percent of single ladies would prefer a man with a cat. The chosen one in their eyes will become more sensual, touching and romantic.

A cat is a wonderful pet that makes a person’s life more interesting and richer. When getting a pet, remember that it requires a responsible attitude and certain financial costs.

What should you feed your cat?

The correct diet for a cat is meat

The main meat in a cat's diet should be lean beef, lamb, horse meat, and rabbit. Of course, the diet may include not only meat, but also offal. Meat and offal should be given raw.

Fish is a necessary product in a cat's diet. Just like meat, it can be given raw three times a week. Small fish are best given whole, raw.
Dairy products. It is recommended that your cat eat fermented milk products with a fat content of up to 9%. Cottage cheese, yogurt, and kefir are good for digestion.
Vegetables in a kitten's diet. They can also be present in the diet if your cat likes it. It is also good to give greens.
Eggs in a kitten's diet. They can be given raw along with dairy products. There is no need to separate the yolk or white.
Bones in a cat's diet. It is good to feed small fish or chicken necks whole raw.

It is not recommended to mix dry or canned food and natural products, since the food already presupposes complete proper nutrition for the cat, and dysbacteriosis is possible when mixed.

What not to feed cats

Cats should not be given chocolate.

It is not recommended to feed cats: chocolate, sweets, foods that contain alcohol and caffeine, nuts, mushrooms, onions and garlic. Such products are not absorbed by the body and even harm it.

Kitten's diet.

The diet depends on the breed and the age of your pet. It is recommended to feed three times a day in small portions. It will be good if you teach your cat to eat at the same time.

The animal’s free access to food is also a positive thing, since the cat chooses when and how much to eat. The downside may be overeating and obesity.

Cats are clean

The cat is the cleanest pet, but it is also quite squeamish. The litter tray must always be perfectly clean, otherwise the animal feels uncomfortable. The same goes for the water bowl: drinking water is changed twice a day so that the pet always has access to fresh and clean liquid; otherwise he may refuse to drink.

At least once watch how a cat eats: carefully, neatly, intelligently, like an aristocrat! She does not attack food, but eats beautifully and calmly. Every day the cat thoroughly washes its face and “washes” its “fur coat” with its tongue. An animal can spend several hours a day licking. There are no unpleasant odors coming from your pet: if you bury your face in the soft fur, you can’t smell anything other than his pleasant personal scent. Such a clean pet brings a minimum of problems.

Cutting nails for kittens

Nail cutting is done with special scissors

It is better to resort to this procedure when you know for sure that your cat is scratching and want to get rid of it, if this does not bother you, it is better to leave them because this way the animal feels more comfortable. This is done either in a veterinary clinic or at home, but with special scissors.

Before cutting your nails, you need to know that only the rounded tip of the nail is cut, since there are blood vessels next to it; if you hit a vessel, your animal will be hurt. When cutting, take the cat's paw and carefully separate one nail, cut it to the line of blood vessels.

In order not to cause discomfort to your pet, it is better to periodically accustom him to this, little by little, maybe even one nail at a time.

Safe home for a kitten

Think through everything in advance.

Cats love to look out the window or walk on the balcony. To prevent your pet from falling, you need to install nets or bars.

In the house itself, a kitten faces many dangers: oven, gas stove, cleaning products and detergents, electrical wiring. Think about how you will protect your pet from mortal risk.

You will have to hide small things that the baby might swallow.

Set up a place for games. In addition, the kitten will need secluded corners where he can retire if desired.

It is important to choose the right place for the toilet. It should be quiet and secluded.

Cleaning your ears

To clean, you will need a cotton swab and boiled water at room temperature. You need to carefully clean the auricle from excess dirt and wax; you should not try to penetrate deep into the ear. We recommend reading the full information on how to clean your cat's ears.

You don’t need to clean your ear more than once a month and you don’t need to achieve sterility, just remove dirt. If you find that your cat often scratches his ear, you should show him to a doctor.

I want to get a kitten, what do I need to know?

The breeder must give you: - recommendations on feeding and care, especially if the cat breed you have chosen has specific requirements for keeping and feeding. — a pedigree or a cat card, if you decide to purchase a kitten with a pedigree. — your contact details if you need advice and assistance. — contacts of a veterinarian who can be contacted if necessary. - toilet paper with the scent from the tray or used litter, if the kitten is accustomed to it, to make it easier to accustom it to the toilet in a new place.

Think about what you will wear to take the kitten from the breeder? The best option is a special transport carrying cage, but, in extreme cases, a box with bedding inside (towel, scarf, etc.) will do. Before adopting a kitten, it is better to buy all the necessary items for it in advance.

I want to get a kitten, what do I need to know?

Combing out the wool

Brush your cats periodically

A mandatory element of caring for a cat is brushing its fur. By combing the skin, we massage it, stimulating blood flow. Long-haired cats must be combed to prevent the formation of mats.

The features of caring for different breeds of cats are almost the same. For example, for British and Scottish cats, you need to take into account their curiosity and hide all things and medicines that are harmful to it. They are quite painful, you need to comply with all vaccinations and be constantly examined by a doctor.

For long-haired and large cats such as the Maine Coon, they need a special large toilet, their own place to sleep, and constant coat care.

For the Siamese cat, it is worth remembering that she is very sociable and attentive, it is worth spending time with her, this breed has a predisposition to liver diseases and dental problems.

For the Abyssinian cat, you need to take into account her activity and curiosity; she loves to watch everyone from above. She does not require special care and loves to swim. Diseases: renal myloidosis, progressive retinal atrophy, gingivitis.

For a Siberian cat. This is a fairly large breed, its peculiarity is that this cat, like the Maine Coon, can be walked.

You can learn a lot from a cat

Yes, yes, you understood everything correctly. Man is a creature several orders of magnitude higher than animals, but he can learn a lot from his four-legged pet. To understand this, just watch a cat.

How does she live? How is she acting? Cats are calm, calm and graceful. They are in no hurry, living their lives the way only they want. Cats are not hypocrites and do not pretend. They behave with dignity and “honor.” The life of these animals is measured and not hasty. They are not in a hurry or running. Many people should learn this attitude towards life and adopt the behavior of cats.

Kitten adaptation

The kitten adapts within a few days

It will take you from several days to a week to adapt the kitten to its new home. First, you need to let the kitten in and let him look around, he may get scared and start crying, in which case it is better to stay near him all the time.

It is best to put the kitten in its home or place for sleep on the first night. So that he doesn't get used to sleeping with you.

At first, the kitten may refuse to eat, but gradually you can offer him food and sit next to him. If the kitten was fed food to begin with, it needs to be fed the same food, gradually introducing new food for its nutrition if required.

If he is already accustomed to the tray, you need to use the same filler, then the animal will easily master the new tray. If he is not toilet trained, it is worth watching him and as soon as he starts looking for a place and meowing - these are signs that the kitten wants to go to the toilet, put him in the tray. This procedure needs to be done several times until he adapts and gets used to going to the toilet.

Socialization

Have you ever heard the expression “curiosity killed the cat”? Yes, indeed, this is about cats. They are exceptionally curious and brave creatures, but usually this natural curiosity doesn't lead to anything too bad! Cats are agile, natural climbers and explorers, they are quick learners, and it is likely that your kitten will become very mischievous and playful once settled in its new home. Once your kitten has settled in, it's a good idea to expose him to as many new experiences, people, places and smells as possible, including everyday things like the TV, vacuum cleaner and washing machine. At the same time, do not forget to provide him with a so-called “escape plan,” at least to her bed, in case he gets scared.

The most important aspect of introducing a kitten to people is to get him petted and held by as many people as possible, but only until he is happy with it. You should never forcefully babysit him if he doesn’t want it himself. If there are other animals living in the house, the introduction should also take place as soon as the kitten gets comfortable. Whatever other animals may be, it is nevertheless advisable to never leave them alone, unattended, until they get along with each other.

Kitten health

The health of your kitten will depend on how you care for it.

The health of a kitten depends on food and care for the animal. Remember that components of health also include timely examination by a doctor, vaccinations, and deworming.

Deworming

It is better to carry out immediately after the kitten has adapted. It is most often carried out in two stages: the first dose of medication, and a second dose a week later. Deworming should be carried out in order to protect you and your animal from parasites that it can become infected with either on the street, if it happens there, or even from germs brought on shoes.

This procedure should be carried out for prevention once every 4 months. Or 2 weeks before vaccination.

Flea control

Fight with shampoo. The easiest and most reliable way is to buy a cat by washing it with shampoo, and it will get rid of these parasites.

Collar. It is also used for prevention and control. Put a collar on the cat; the period of wearing it depends on its type and the number of fleas. Cons: Not all cats are comfortable wearing a collar.

Drops or sprays. They are applied between the cat's shoulder blades and are very effective in fighting fleas.

To combat fleas in cats, products such as Frontline and Bars work well.

Vaccination

It is up to the owners to decide whether to vaccinate cats or not, but it is worth remembering that unvaccinated cats do not have immunity against diseases. Kittens can be vaccinated as early as 3 months of age. Vaccination is carried out subsequently every six months, a year, three years, depending on the vaccine. Vaccination can be carried out only after deworming. Only a doctor can determine exactly when and with what to vaccinate your pet, but it is better to vaccinate a cat with vaccines from one manufacturer.

What else should you buy if you have a kitten?

Remember that your baby needs to play a lot. Mice and balls, interactive toys will brighten up a kitten’s leisure time and give them the opportunity to develop, distracting them from curtains and tablecloths. Be sure to purchase a scratching post to help protect your wallpaper. The kitten also needs a house or a bed, or even better, purchase a special complex that will create the kitten the necessary comfort and safety, organize space and place for games.

Having a small kitten, you have acquired great love for many years. Your pet is considered a kitten until it is 12 months old. During the first year of his life, he will have many discoveries, and for you many joyful concerns and reasons for affection. But the next years, when the cat becomes more sedate and forms its own opinion about everything, will bring many joyful experiences and memorable moments.